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Purpose To give opportunities for fathers to build relationships with their primary aged boys,
to share God love and grow together in their Christian walks. Goal To see fathers and sons come to know Jesus as Lord. To see Christian fathers and
sons grow in Christ. To see fathers and sons grow closer together through shared
life experiences. Definitions
Introduction Our revisions to the Tree Climbers program is now complete. In DISCOVERY and ODYSSEY LEADER’S GUIDES, Fathers and sons learn and explore nine discoveries about birds, trees, outer about: rocks, fishing,space, oceans, wildlife,reptiles, pets, snow,weather, swamps,disasters, farms,caves & mountains,flowers, and wildand insects. These fun activities in each volume to do with your children helping you build relationships with them and teach them about God.
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A Weekly Meeting Run Through... The weekly meeting is the center of Tree Climber activity and achievement. It is a ninety minute purposeful father/son relationship building and ministry opportunity. This meeting usually takes place on a week-night, although some churches conduct their Tree Climber programs on Saturday mornings or Sunday evenings. The local church chooses the meeting place, which often is a large multipurpose room in the church building. Here is a typical Tree Climber meeting schedule: TREE CLIMBER MEETING PLAN 7:00 Woody's Welcome 7:10 Woody's Games 7:25 Fun To Do 7:50 Woody's Checkup 8:05 Woody's Stretch 8:15 Tree Climber Circle 8:30 Dismissal 8:35 Lcaders' HuddleWOODY’S WELCOME (10 minutes) The Coordinator calls the Tree Climbers group to order with the words, "Tree Climbers rally." The boys should line up in a semicircle around the tree. Men should stand behind their boys, while the Coordinator faces the group.
Boys then come forward one at a time, take their own animal figures (which have been colored and mounted on thin cardboard), and hang them on one of the hooks on the tree. The Coordinator then selects one of the boys to hang Woody Raccoon on the tree, preferable on the top hook. When all the boys are back in their places, begin the meeting with prayer. Then ask the group to sit on the floor. Make announcements about the activities for that night and any special events in the future. Comment on the theme (see Introduction and Woody’s Welcome in the meeting plans found in the Tree Climbers Adventures volumes) and what the group will learn that evening. Finally, read the theme verse for the night (write it in large letters on a chalkboard or newsprint pad). The Coordinator is normally in charge of this part of the meeting. He should make sure the ceremony is orderly and prompt, but not rushed. He may ask one of the men, or one of the boys, to pray. His announcements should be brief but enthusiastic. TIPS
WOODY’S GAMES (15 minutes) Play two fairly active games. The men should participate with the boys, although they must not get too aggressive or rough. For many boys, games will be the highlight of the meeting. Be sure it’s fun but also safe. The Coordinator should ask different men to lead the games each week. The weekly plans in Tree Climbers Adventures provide two games for this period. The Coordinator should make sure the game equipment is on hand and ready to use. TIPS
FUN TO DO (25 minutes) Themes help to tie the different elements of a meeting together. They are handy devices to help men and boys learn some aspect of God’s Word and the world He made. The Tree Climbers meeting plans found in Tree Climbers Adventures consists of nine themes, all of them related to nature. A second volume contains another set of nine themes—each theme requires four meetings to complete. The "Fun To Do" project at each meeting is especially devoted to the theme is some way. The project will need to be prepared by one of the men. Assignments cannot be made at the last minute! Men need to know several weeks before which meeting they must lead. The men may want to take turns, or perhaps lead an entire four weeks at a time. Check the Advance Preparation list for each theme to determine what supplies are needed. If the project that is suggested in this guide does not fit your circumstances, make any adjustments that will help convey the theme. Since this part of the meeting requires the most planning, the Coordinator should be ready to assist the man who will lead it. The Coordinator may lead some of the projects him self. It’s important to develop a spirit of cooperation among the men so that no one person carries too much of the bur den. Also, the Coordinator may want to invite some fathers who do not attend regularly to come for particular sessions where their skills can be of help. TIPS
WOODY’S CHECK-UP (15 minutes) This step includes the most spiritually significant moment of the meeting. Father and son (or one man with several boys) sit down to talk about the theme verse (each meeting has its own verse) using the questions provided in Tree Climbers Adventures. They should first memorize the verse together and then examine its meaning. These man-boy pairs should sit by themselves in a corner or in a separate room. Men who are visiting the group may sit in with another man if they feel uncomfortable doing this exercise on their own. Sticker awards are available to recognize a boy’s participation in the meeting. Each theme has a sticker with four parts—one part for each meeting. Woody’s Check-up is the time when a boy can place the sticker on his wall poster, after he has recited the memory verse to his father or one of the leaders. The Coordinator brings the group into formation after 10 minutes and gives each boy his sticker. He should invite one or two boys to recite the verse aloud to the whole group. If the Coordinator’s son is in the program, he will want to do this exercise with his boy. If there are more boys than men, the Coordinator should assign several boys to each man, making sure the more difficult boys are not all with the same man. Also, the Coordinator should keep an eye on the clock. Allow about 10 minutes for the conversation and five minutes for the award ceremony. Have the sticker sheets (available in the Tree Climbers Award Packet) ready for boys to remove the portion designated for this meeting and attach to their posters. TIPS
WOODY’S STRETCH (10 minutes) This game is intended as a change of pace. Most of the games suggested can be played in a circle on the floor. They should not be as active as the previous games but help release some energy before the Tree Climbers Circle. The same man who leads Woody’s Games should lead this game as well. TREE CLIMBERS CIRCLE (15 minutes) Men and boys sit in a circle and one of the men tells the story suggested for this meeting. Encourage the man to be come familiar with the story in advance so he can tell it to the boys without reading it. Telling the story allows him to have eye contact with boys and dramatize it more. Some men enjoy telling stories more than others. Give every man in the group a chance, but don’t pressure a man who is not ready. Occasional guests can add some variety (e.g., the pastor of the church). At the end of the story, the Coordinator should call the group back into formation. Each boy then removes his animal figure from the tree. The Coordinator then selects one of the boys to remove Woody Raccoon from the tree (he will also place Woody on the tree at the start of the next meeting). Then one of the men offers a closing prayer. The Coordinator moves the group from the game into the story formation. Boys sit in front of their fathers or one of the men. The Coordinator will concern himself with how the group sits and pays attention to the speaker. He also makes sure the concluding ceremony goes smoothly and quickly. TIPS
Leader's Huddle (five minutes after dismissal) The Tree Climbers are on the way home. Transportation which may be necessary has been arranged by the Brigade Chairman or one of his assistants. Leaders then meet for a brief time of discussion, evaluation and prayer. If there are specific problems, they should be considered, but lengthy discussions should be reserved for the monthly planning sessions. This brief huddle is an important time in developing the leadership team and maintaining spiritual teamwork among the men. The impact of this brief conversation on the entire Tree Climber ministry can be enormous.
Q: What if a boy’s father cannot attend? A: This will happen in almost every Tree Climbers group. The way you handle this situation will depend on how strongly you and your church want fathers to be actively involved. The Tree Climbers program is designed to encourage fathers to participate and works best when they do. One or two men with a large group of boys is a poor arrangement, especially since boys in grades one and two need so much personal attention. To help avoid this situation, the Brigade chairman and Coordinator should stress the importance of fathers attending with their sons. There will be exceptions, of course. A boy’s father may be absent from the home. Or the father may be active in another church program that meets at the same time as Tree Climbers. There are several things that can be done:
Q: Can Tree Climbers include boys of kindergarten age? A: Five-year-olds may have difficulty keeping up with first-and second-graders. Occasionally, there will be kindergartners who have matured faster and can fit into the group, or who are already 6 years of age and are not yet in first grade. In these cases, kindergartners should be welcomed but fathers should be expected to attend. Q: What are some ways to involve fathers? A: Try the following:
Q: Should Tree Climbers be kept separate from a church’s Stockade program? A: It’s always tempting for Stockade leaders to form a post of boys who are not old enough to be in Stockade. Some have even called them Tree Climbers posts. This approach is not recommended. The age span between 6 or 7 years and 11 years of age is too wide to conduct effective projects or discussions. Older boys will begin to drop out of the pro gram if they perceive the Stockade as a program for little kids. The pre-Stockade boys also run the risk of being injured in games when they play with older boys. Also, boys that begin Stockade as early as first or second grade will be much more inclined to tire of it by the time they reach fifth or sixth grades. Four years is about as long as one program can be expected to interest boys week after week. CSB recommends that the Tree Climbers program be distinct from the Stockade. Allow boys to look forward to Stockade when they are old enough to attend. At the same time encourage fathers to spend time with their sons in the more relaxing Tree Climbers program. This will improve the chances of fathers continuing on as adult partners or leaders in Stockade. A Tree Climbers group may need to meet at the same time and place as the Stockade and there are some events that can be shared together. But the men and boys in Tree Climbers should conduct their weekly meeting in a separate room. Q: What about father/daughter pairs in Tree Climbers? A: An increasing number of Tree Climbers units have opened their groups to father/daughter participation. In most cases, there have been few difficulties integrating boys and girls at this age level. If there are enough father/daughter pairs to form a separate group, this ought to be done. Continue to use the existing Tree Climbers Adventures meeting suggestions. Q: Can Tree Climbers meetings be conducted in 60 minutes? A: Yes. You can reduce the time allotments for Woody’s. Games. Fun To Do and Tree Climbers Circle. You could even drop Woody’s Stretch, but do not eliminate Woody’s Check-Up. A 60-minute meeting will not be quite as relaxed as the 90-minute, but it is workable. THE JOB OF THE COORDINATOR The man who agrees to be the Coordinator for Tree Climbers should do exactly what his title suggests. He should coordinate the activities of the group, relying upon all the men to take part in the leadership. To prepare for this leadership role, a Tree Climbers Coordinator should complete the certification process described on page 109. Q: Who should be the Coordinator? A: Review the following:
Q: What are the Coordinator’s responsibilities? A: Review the following:
From: Building Men Pages 32-37 |
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